RESPECT Yourself (Before You Wreck Yourself) – Affirmation 15
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WE ARE SEEKING BLOGGERS! My “Fire Up! Taking Your Life and Business to 11…” book is ALMOST ready to launch. I am anxiously awaiting the Kindle version to be approved, so the next steps can be put into motion. Right now, the d11 team and......
Right now. This very moment. Choose to be UNSTOPPABLE. Focus on your goal. Trust Yourself. Be Courageous. Believe you are worthy! The next two days I am blessed to be part of four events – ALL focused on engaging, elevating and empowering people who are......
You must stand for something. (or you stand for nothing) You can’t be EVERYTHING to everyone. Take a stand. Define YOUR Values. Live by them. Surround yourself with others who will HONOR them. Let the rest go. It may feel like you are playing it......
Any time of the year is the perfect time to reflect, review, and refresh elements of your personal brand and image as a business and success-minded entrepreneur. It isn’t wise to wait until you need a new job or your final project is complete to......
DREAM Big. Do Your BEST Work. GIVE Freely. Sprinkle GRACE. FOCUS. Go after your day, my friends! Want to pin it? Here you go!...
3 Simple Ways To FIRE UP! Cultivate your confidence… it will make you stronger. Collaborate with others… it will make you wiser. Create true community… it will make you better. PIN IT: ...
Do YOU tell the truth?Do you WANT the truth? This week I was challenged by Kevin Gerald of Champions Centre. His Sunday message was called “To Be Honest” (#tbh) and – to be honest – he was singing my song to me – OUT LOUD!......
Please welcome a new guest blogger, Mikki Kingrey, of www.RealResultsMentoring.com. In this post she shares her thoughts on how to move from client repelling to client attracting! As an entrepreneur, new clients are the lifeline of our business. It is a constant cycle, a flow......
Sometimes we need to be reminded by someone… and sometimes we need to be that someone. Be good to each other. Think before you speak. Pray for clarity. Stop judging, start embracing. Help a friend get closer to their dream. Smile and laugh often.......
No matter what time of year it is, there are always networking opportunities. Kick-off meetings, women’s conferences, sales rallies, tech conferences, BarCamps, marketing summits, leadership retreats… you name it – experts are engaging across the globe to share best practices, exchange/elevate ideas and empower...
pssst… yes, you. When was the last time you looked at your last 11 Facebook posts? Actually, your last 11 posts on any social media platform? How about the last 11 blog posts you have written? Do they represent YOU? Are they speaking YOUR TRUTH?......
The topic of putting together “New Year’s Resolutions” is everywhere right now. The concept of a positive mindset reset across the globe is always exciting and encouraging… however, setting your goals and intentions only once a year can be detrimental to actually ACHIEVING them. Instead of......
There is no shame in CARING about what others think of you. The key is not letting it VALIDATE your magnificence or DIM your sparkle! I often struggle with the concept of NOT CARING what other people think of me. I do care. There,......
I was recently interviewed by Debra Helleren on her Secrets Unplugged series for Homes.com. She wanted to talk about pro tips for networking – especially this time of year with all of the holiday parties happening. I hope you enjoy our “under 11 minutes”......
pssst… Smile when you wake up.Seize and savor each moment.Give Yourself GRACE.BE: Fierce. Feisty. Fabulous… FEARLESS.Embrace Change.Sprinkle blessings and encouragement. NOW is the time.THIS is the place. YOU are the one. Go after your week, my friends! Cheers,Debra Want to post it on Instagram?......
Have you thought about who you will inspire this week? Take a moment. Choose one person you will definitely find time to pour into this week… Someone you want to help FINISH the year strong! Schedule a coffee chat – in person, if......
Today is a special one for my business. Obviously, d11 made it beyond year one AND year two flew by – filled with lessons and growth! Today, d11 has been in business for 111 weeks! (Happy dance happening right now…) The statistics say that 8......
Every day you have a choice to carry yesterday’s disappointments with you… or leave them in the past. Most of us (especially the entrepreneurs out there) truly need to be reminded of this EVERY SINGLE DAY. The truth is, you can’t build a positive......
pssst… you… yes, you. When we meet for the first time, I beg you – please stop asking this generic question. I wholeheartedly believe the number one question we ask people (in the USA) when we meet at networking events is the wrong one. You know......
As entrepreneurs we love to network… we love to attend events, conference, and fun events like: Holiday Celebrations. Happy Hours. Dinner Soirées. Sports-Centric events like Super Bowl parties. (#GoHawks!). You get the idea…. SIMPLY PUT: WE LOVE MEETING AND GETTING TO KNOW PEOPLE! There are usually people......
It’s UP! Part Deux of the conversation with Vija Williams, Deb Champion, Vanessa Murray and Nicole Mangina on Get Real Radio on 1150 KKNW here in Seattle, WA! The five of us really dug into this lively, info-packed, laughter-filled conversation about being successful women in business… We answered questions......
pssst…yes you. Are you living in alignment with your values or are your choices forcing you to live out of alignment? Do you find yourself making statements like these? (The words in parentheses are examples the values that are out of alignment when you say these words.)......
Today’s post is short and simple: Surround yourself with people who inspire you to be your BEST SELF… not require you to be someone else. ...
What does reinvention mean to you? Do you revel in it or avoid it at all cost? I believe nearly every day you reinvent yourself – in some way, shape or form. You decide every day if you are going to move forward or backward.......
Did you miss my latest The Money Hour segment? Never fear… here is the recording and overview. Thank you for listening and sharing with your world… Cheers! Tina Mitchell kicks off the show with her *Money Chat* segment, then she and I share a chat......
Woohooo! Every once-in-a-while we need to (I mean “get to”) toot our own horn. Yes, it can feel awkward, at least at first, but if we don’t share our shiny, fabulous news – who will? Our friends and fans want to celebrate with us, help......
Today you are you!That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you! ~Dr. Seuss Wow! Birthday week was a whirlwind. Thank you for all of the thoughtful cards, note, posts, texts, calls, etc… Social media sure does take “Birthday......
Personal Branding Tip #7: Don’t Fear Failure. * F – A – I – L – U – R – E (Take a moment and notice how this word makes you FEEL…) Experiencing failure is inevitable. (There, I said it.) So many of us fear it......
Earlier this week I had the pleasure of joining Vija Williams and Deb Champion on Get Real Radio on 1150 KKNW here in Seattle, WA. Two of my favorite women in business, Vanessa Murray and Nicole Mangina, were also invited to the studio! The five of......
Hi! It has been a couple of weeks since my last post. I decided to put writing and social media on hold for a couple of weeks while attending a business conference and retreat. It allowed me to truly FOCUS on the 1:1 conversations and......
Hi! It has been a couple of weeks since my last post. I decided to put writing and social media on hold for a couple of weeks while attending a business conference and retreat. It allowed me to truly FOCUS on the 1:1 conversations and......
Personal brand isn’t just about DEFINING your core values, passions, purpose, niche, etc… It is about SHARING it with the world, tell the story so (in a way) they SEE you living it out loud. For many, the confusion starts with HOW to start –......
June Gloom is a reality. Every June, the same things happens here in Seattle (and many other places along the West Coast). Gloomy (gorgeous, in my opinion) grey skies roll in here and stay… until July 5th. It happens every single year, but it seems......
One of my favorite, sassy SUPERPOWER sayings… May it fire YOU up like it does me! Now, go fill your mug with your superpower beverage – and take on your day!...
This week was a fantabulous, #FireMeUp11 kind of week. My first real, live, official radio spot as “Debra Trappen of d11 consulting” was recorded! Tina Mitchell invited me on her show, The Money Hour, to share tips, trick and truths with her listeners. She has extended an invitation to......
This week was a fantabulous, #FireMeUp11 kind of week. My first real, live, official radio spot as “Debra Trappen of d11 consulting” was recorded! Tina Mitchell invited me on her show, The Money Hour, to share tips, trick and truths with her listeners. She has extended an invitation to......
This post is part of the d11 Personal Branding Blog Series… Each of the 25 branding tips will get a “deep dive” in the upcoming months! Personal Branding Tip #6: Embrace your uniqueness and your superpowers. I believe key ingredients of a magnificently, magnetic personal brand include......
Hooray… The next “ENTERPRISER” post is here! #Enterpriser is a blog series created to highlight the fun, quirky, REAL stories of “Captains of Industry” who are inspiring, navigating, and embracing change in their world! Today, it is my pleasure to introduce you to the supportive, encouraging, talent-attracting Tash...
You may or may not already know about BreveTV… a show I co-host with Kelly Mitchell (aka The Caffeinator). BreveTV was created to share rich conversations from today’s thought leaders in business, entertainment and everyday life. The show highlights successes, strategies and insights on......
You may or may not already know about BreveTV… a show I co-host with Kelly Mitchell (aka The Caffeinator). BreveTV was created to share rich conversations from today’s thought leaders in business, entertainment and everyday life. The show highlights successes, strategies and insights on......
If we are connected on social media, then you already know I am on vacation. (Hooray!) 11 delicious days to celebrate my 11th wedding anniversary with my sweetheart… So far, this week has been about unplugging, reconnecting, and recharging. It got me thinking about the amazing......
Friday, May 2nd, I participated in, and co-produced, a women’s leadership summit called LEXI. LEXI stands for Leaders Engaged in the eXchange of Ideas. I am often asked “What do you talk about and hear at those women’s events?”. This question always makes me smile......
Friday, May 2nd, I participated in, and co-produced, a women’s leadership summit called LEXI. LEXI stands for Leaders Engaged in the eXchange of Ideas. I am often asked “What do you talk about and hear at those women’s events?”. This question always makes me smile......
This post is part of the d11 Personal Branding Blog Series… Each of the 25 branding tips is getting a deeper dive this year. Personal Branding Tip #5: Be Specific. Have you ever asked someone: “How are you?” OF COURSE you have. It is one of......
This post is part of the d11 Personal Branding Blog Series… Each of the 25 branding tips is getting a deeper dive this year. Personal Branding Tip #5: Be Specific. Have you ever asked someone: “How are you?” OF COURSE you have. It is one of......
Nearly every week I have conversations with friends or clients about defining their “WHY”. I have ooooodles of conversations that include questions and answers like these: Q1: Do I need it? A1: You don’t need a WHY statement to live, but I believe having one......
This post is part of the d11 Personal Branding Blog Series… Each of the 25 branding tips will get a “deep dive” in the upcoming months! Personal Branding Tip #4: “Be your signature self.” BUT HOW? The following are simple concepts (we hear all the time), yet......
Okay, here we go… The next “ENTERPRISER” post is here! #Enterpriser is a blog series created to highlight the fun, quirky, REAL stories of “Captains of Industry” who are inspiring, navigating, and embracing change in their world! Today, it is my pleasure to introduce you to......
This post is part of the d11 Personal Branding Blog Series… Each of the 25 branding tips will get a “deep dive” in the upcoming months! It is time to dive into the third point in the series:#3: Know your competitors. Here are SIX ways to......
Are you ready to dig into the second point in the personal branding series? #2: Master your craft, DEFINE YOUR NICHE, and let people KNOW what it is. “Becoming known for one thing is not hard… It is saying NO to all of the other......
We all know “Firing Up Your Personal Brand” takes time, patience, and consistency. Please don’t get overwhelmed… just take it one step, one day at a time. To make it easier, I created a list of 25 personal branding “tips, tools, and truths” for you and plan to dig......
You were born with a purpose.You woke up today… Brilliant and feisty.Know what that means?THERE IS MORE.You still have amazing things to achieve…Relationships to build and nurture.Mountains to conquer.NOW.GET READY.Fulfill YOUR Purpose.Delight and inspire your world. FIRE. UP. ...
Every single day I experience this. I need to email to someone who is not already in my database and the search begins. First, I hit Facebook and their email address is RARELY listed or it is the generic @facebook.com one. Next up, it’s time......
Join me in believing this and making it a movement in our worlds… SHINE your light. SHARE your journey. When you are courageous, you create a spark that ignites and inspires others to be brave! What will you, and your bold, brave heart go after this......
Are you ready to get to the core of YOUR brand? Your PERSONAL brand? Is TODAY the day you decided to get clear, define, and nurture your personal brand… and SHINE online? Have you done some work and now ready to take it to an......
Goals. Visions. Dreams. Intentions. Resolutions. Objectives. Aspirations… Whatever you choose to call them – these are the “things” you want to accomplish in the weeks, months, and year ahead. Those goals that get you closer to living your very best life. Since this is......
Merry Christmas! I sincerely wish you a spectacular Christmas celebration filled with love, laughter, family, friends, and oooodles of delicious food and wine to share together! Here is to soaking it all in and creating REAL memories… Cheers! ...
Okay, here we go… The next “ENTERPRISER” post is here! #Enterpriser is a blog series created to highlight the fun, quirky, REAL stories of:“Captains of Industry” who are inspiring, navigating, and embracing change in their world! Today, it is my pleasure to introduce you......
pssst… Have you been missing out on TODAY because you are too focused on what will happen tomorrow, next week, or next year? Are you “attaching your happiness” to an achievement that hasn’t been realized yet? The last couple weeks have been filled with reminders......
A while back, I posted this photo/update on my Facebook timeline… For days after I posted the photo I received comments, direct messages and emails (yes, ironic, I know) asking me HOW I DID IT. A little background first… 16+ months ago WAR......
Lovingly added to in 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, and now – 2018! Thanksgiving reminds me to slow down, recall the many things I am thankful for, and intentionally count my blessings. In 2013, I decided to put my list together a little differently, more......
What is the big mistake you might be making on Facebook (or an social media platform you use to build relationships)? What could it be? Shockingly, it is—> NOT MAKING IT EASY to research and connect with you from your Facebook profile! Yep. It......
What does “Finish The Year Strong” mean to you? In this conversational webinar with Laura Monroe of Inman News, I share tips, tricks and truths on how to finish 2013 strong by energizing your business strategy, renewing your mind, and refreshing your attitude… all......
It is NO secret… speaking at live events ignites me and fires me up! It allows me to inspire others to shift their perspective, embrace change, or motivate them to take what they are doing to an 11! Not much brings me more pleasure than......
* Witchie Witchie * Screamie Screamie * * Happy Happy HALLOWEENIE! * No tricks coming from the d11 den today… just a sweet, but potent reminder TREAT. Enjoy the ghoulishly fabulous fun today, my friends! ...
From Entrepreneur to Intrapreneur – @SuzRoy Shares Her Journey… Suzanne Roy… who is this mysteriously fabulous woman? I recall hearing about “her”… The “behind the scenes chica” of this cool website called “Tech Savvy Agent” that the then “nearly unknown...
The following is the first post in a series focused on “Personal Branding To Build A Life and Business That Fires You Up“ to help you understand, build and leverage an authentic personal brand. Let’s be real. For most people, some of the biggest challenges......
Okay, here we go… The second “ENTERPRISER” post is here! #Enterpriser is a new blog series created to highlight the fun, quirky, REAL stories of:“Captains of Industry” who are inspiring, navigating, and embracing change in their world! Today, it is my pleasure to introduce......
For those of you who prefer to listen… here is a podcast of the post: It’s d11 consulting’s birthday! Yep… this week d11 celebrates ONE YEAR IN BUSINESS. My “baby” is 1. WOW! (Now, I realize “one year anniversary” is a better term, however,......
We have all heard it. WE. MUST. CREATE. CONTENT. It buzzes in our ears we hear it so often. I know we get it… creating valuable content is definitely an important part of building a solid personal brand (what we write about and......
For those of you who prefer LISTENING over reading… here you go: Battling or embracing your self-doubt and focusing on “the competition” are some of the top ways we keep ourselves from achieving GREATNESS. If you are waging war against yourself… STOP. Remember, there is......
Wow. The last two weeks have been beyond blessed with fabulous days and nights filled with love, laughter, oodles of adventures, and a lesson learned (okay, relearned). “Taking Time” was a birthday gift I decided to give myself this year. To (dare I type it)......
Wow. The last two weeks have been beyond blessed with fabulous days and nights filled with love, laughter, oodles of adventures, and a lesson learned (okay, relearned). “Taking Time” was a birthday gift I decided to give myself this year. To (dare I type it)......
This is a simple reminder to STOP and TAKE TIME. Slow down. Stop working. Turn off your technology. Connect with your world. Embrace relaxation. REFLECT. Delight in doing nothing. Revel in reconnecting to your PASSIONS. Take Time. Now… ...
Wow. Yesterday was DIVINE. Turning 40 was deliciously fabulous… and GLITTER-FILLED thanks to many of you who shared memes like these with me. I won’t fib, I was on a FIRED UP high because of YOU, my dearest friends and followers. Oooooodles of you......
Hooray! I am excited to share thoughts from the Seattle launch event of Urban Campfire. This was the first event, in a LONG time, where I wasn’t speaking… where I was attending to fill my own “personal soul tank”. Melody’s (the founder) mission with Urban Campfire: …to......
Lately, I have been seeing and having quite a few conversations about three of my least favorite words to focus on: competition, comparing, and copying. Now, I am going to get on my sassy redhead soapbox for a moment, so put your listening ears and......
It is a SIMPLE #FireMeUp11 today… When you share a QUOTE as a status update on social media, please remember to tag the person (yes, dead or alive) and give them credit for their words. If you are not connected to them on social media,......
Okay, here we go… The first “ENTERPRISER” post is here! #Enterpriser is a new blog series created to highlight the fun, quirky, REAL stories of: “Captains of Industry” who are inspiring, navigating, and embracing change in their world! Today, it is my pleasure......
Today’s vLog is a super quick tip: How to Reposition Your Photos on Facebook! You know… that “annoying issue” when you upload a photo with your status update and it looks like this on your timeline or biz page: but you WANT it to look......
When was the last time you did something extraordinary for someone in your world… something that delighted them and made them SMILE? I was serendipitously blessed by a post that was whizzzzing by in my Twitter feed. It was one of Garvin Thomas‘ latest......
In this video blog episode I ask a tough question: Are you approaching your goals with a passion mindset or passive mindset? I look forward to your thoughts and comments below! For those of you who prefer to READ… not watch: I believe a......
This vLog episode I’m going to ask a tough question: Are you approaching your goals with a passion mindset or passive mindset? I look forward to your thoughts and comments below! For those of you who prefer to READ… not watch: I believe......
Did you know that only 47.4 % of CEOs participate on social media sites?Or that 79 percent of Inc 500 CEOs and 30 percent of Fortune 500 CEOs have an active presence on at least one social network?Do these numbers surprise you?(Love stats? There......
Did you know that only 47.4 % of CEOs participate on social media sites?Or that 79 percent of Inc 500 CEOs and 30 percent of Fortune 500 CEOs have an active presence on at least one social network?Do these numbers surprise you?(Love stats? There......
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